The next generation of electric vehicles will offer bi-directional charging capabilities, but the current cumbersome and undefined interconnection process is hindering widespread adoption. To address this, clear rules and standards are needed to differentiate between "capable" and "enabled" bi-directional EVs, ensuring grid safety while allowing for innovation and customer benefits. Utilities should take three critical steps to enable next-generation EV drivers to fully utilize these capabilities, including implementing tiered interconnection processes, collaborating with automakers, and educating customers on the benefits and requirements of bi-directional EVs. By working together, regulators, utilities, automakers, and customers can contribute to a more sustainable energy ecosystem.